How many times have we heard Tony Horton state, “Do your best and …” to which we reply “.. forget the rest?” For me I’m all alone in the lower level of our town home, with just the DVD playing and me sweating up a storm, and verbally I reply with “forget the rest!” I know you’ve done it too! Well today Scott Pratt has written a post about this famous tonyism. I was challenged by Scott’s post, hope you are too!
“He said he’ll do his best…that’s always enough.”
Tony Horton said those words during Plyo X, the mother of all X workouts. The group was about to tackle Mary Katherines for the second time, and Tony chose to give Dominic a break and let him put his hands on his hips. Eric, on the other hand, was to put his hands in the air. Eric, you’ll remember, is the person who performed the entire plyo workout with a prosthetic leg. Tony told him to put his hands in the air, then joked how Eric didn’t know that was coming. Eric said he’d do his best, and Tony responded with perhaps my favourite Tonyism of all.
We’re all familiar with “Do your best and forget the rest”. While that sounds like a catchy slogan, if you take the time to really let the meaning of the words sink in, you begin to see the power of them. To me, to paraphrase Tony’s quote above, “Do your best, that’s always enough” is even more powerful. It signifies a fact that we can all too easily forget when we try desperately to keep up with Tony or Dominic or anyone else, whether in fitness or some other aspect of life. If you are truly doing your best, truly giving a task everything you have, it WILL be enough. How far you get doesn’t matter. Maybe you can’t do double-time jump knee tucks. Maybe you can’t do airborne plyo pushups. So what? Give everything you have, so that when you’re done you can drag yourself to a mirror and be proud, knowing that you didn’t hold anything back, and that will be enough.
The problem we run into is when we try to measure “enough” by some external standard. By doing this we guarantee ourselves failure and frustration. If the “enough” we feel we must achieve is currently beyond our reach and we fall short, we feel like we’ve failed. At the same time, if the “enough” is too easy for us, we stop before we should. We must look internally to find our own individual “enough”, and then do our absolute best to get there. My exercise performance is different from yours, and different from Tony’s. That doesn’t matter. As long as we give it all we’ve got, we’ll all reach our goals, and we’ll all have the satisfaction of knowing that our best really and truly is “enough”.
Scott Pratt
www.fitnessinthebalance.com
Twitter username: fitinthebalance